The definition of Perspective is a particular attitude toward or way of regarding something; a point of view. Each Author from the books below have very different lived experiences from me. Their first-hand account allowed me to step into the shoes of another, if only for a brief view of what it’s like in their world. As I reflected upon their views, one theme that threaded 🪡 across like patchwork quilt…. COURAGE. The courage to design and LIVE your life independent of others expectations.To go against what the world told you to be, and thrive while doing it.
1. Haben- Haben Girma “They place the burden on me to step out of my world and into theirs”. This book gave first hand account to what it’s like moving through a world built not built for your abilities. Haben’s unwavering courage to not only thrive; but pave way for others in equally inspirational and enigmatic. I recommend the Audiobook version as she explains the intonation of her voice and why it’s important for tolerance.
2. Things I have Withheld- Kai Miller “We wrote because there are things we have withheld. We die because things have been withheld from us.” I started to challenge myself last year to read across the globe. Kai Miller is from Jamaica, and speaks truth to the things that often go unsaid. His ability to diversify his experience while honoring others is a work of art. I recommend reading a print copy, as I found myself notating and listening throughout the read.
3. How Not to Drown in a Glass of Water . Angie Cruz “You step in the dirt so it forces you to get new shoes”. There’s so much I can say about this book. Ms. Cruz is a genius with roots from the Dominican Republic. The book is written in a part narrative part storytelling format that is unlike any other book I’ve ever read. It allowed me to experience the main characters individual perspective while noting how an outsider experiences her. Cara Romero had me laughing out loud one moment, and pumping a fist at her resilience in the next. I highly recommend the audiobook version as the narrators provide an award-winning performance.
4. Take my Hand Dolen Perkins-Valdez “Don’t family planning include men?”. Reading this book re-ignited a passion for ensuring all understand informed consent. Set in 1973 Alabama, we see the effects of class divides and education played out in health care of a single father with daughters he’s struggling to protect. We also view the Agencies and it’s workers with good intent but without boundries. As Oprah states “this book is a devastatingly beautiful account of a cruel past”. I recommend e-book version not necessarily for annotations but the ability to go back and re-read bookmarked pages.
5. Letter to my Daughter Maya Angelou. “A friend may be waiting behind a strangers face.” No introduction of Dr. Angelou is needed. But rather, her story around friendships gave me a perspective. This book has endless warm, wise advice everyone can pull something from. I recommend print and audio copy. Listening to Dr. Angelou while highlighting is like a soothing balm.
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