If I do return cheese to my diet it will be in moderation, I realize how easy it is to overdo it quickly. Now for those that know me hold tight. If you see me steal a cheese fry from your plate don’t judge me
😊🚞 Amtrak’s Culinary Delights!! #slowliving
This Spring Break we decided to go cross country on Amtrak starting in Chicago, Illinois and ending in Los Angeles, California!! I was totally prepared for the adventure, but the culinary journey was an unexpected delight!
🌱 My Rooted Kitchen Friends: Here’s What’s Coming in Mar: Let’s Chat🫸🏽🫷🏾, Let’s Rest 🌙, Let’s Eat 🍽️
“You Will Encounter Many Defeats, But You Must Not Be Defeated”. -Dr. Maya Angelou Can we exhale in Mar? Whoooosahhh Feb was hard… I’m incredibly grateful I have a community that shows up for each other consistently. I could not have picked a better word for 2026, ROOTED. Rooted in…
🫖 Chai Say What!!! Pausing for Tea 💁🏾♀️
In my zest to pause with delicious tea every day, gathering and organizing my supplies in an easy to grab space was first. I pulled out this tea set with the MOST delicious chai I’ve ever had. It was so good, I gifted it to two colleagues this past holiday season!
♥️💚🖤 My Kwanzaa Dinner Plan! + Recipes 🥥🌽🍅
As parents, the days can be both long and short. Routines, responsibilities, obligations, and raising our children can become mundane. making purposeful time to teach values out loud as well as live them can mean so much.
📣 2026 Word of the Year Reveal…
To BE rooted starts with being…. The Woman I’ve fought so hard to become. Not standing still, but being grounded enough to grow.
✨4.5 My Greatest Achievement this year 🙌🏾 +recipe
She then asked, what do I think has been the biggest change that helped me get there, without a doubt becoming a HOME cook.
✨💪🏾 Do Not Let Your JOY be Stolen 🌱 #FabulousForties!!!🎂
Happiness can come and go with what’s happening around us, but joy is deeper. It’s an emotion tied to our spirit, our health, and our sense of purpose.
Soba Noodles 🍜 Love at First Sight #anti-inflammationfoods
So I might be late to the party when it comes to being a “home cook”…. but as folks know, I’ve hopped in with GUSTO!! There are many ways to fight inflammation in our bodies, physical activity, sleep, avoid risky substances, stress reduction, social connections, and Nutrition!!
🎁 Do You Have Time or Make Time? Time is a Gift + 🫖 Evening Tea Recipe
The greatest gift I gave myself when we moved from Chicago to Cincinnati was Time…..
🧺 Farmers Market Haul: Findley Market #nationalfarmersmarketweek👩🏽🌾
Supporting farmers markets is a powerful way to invest in your local community, health, and environment all at once. When you shop at a farmers market, you’re getting fresh, seasonal food often harvested just hours before, which means better flavor and more nutrients. You’re also helping small-scale farmers and food producers earn a fair wage and sustain their livelihoods.
🐝 What Happens When We’re Lonely? 4 Steps to Combat 🎧 & a Playlist #socialwellness
Build a community where you feel known, loved, and supported. Poor Social connection raises the risk of heart disease by 29% and stroke by 32%.
Save 💰 Swaps: Spinach 🥬 Box Vs Bunch
For this swap you spend about 9 times less by buying bunch vs box spinach 🤯!Food is one of our top home budget cost drivers. Facts are facts, so when we focus our time and energy is saving money and being healthy on food, we win with our household budget overall.
🥣 OOOOOOOATMEAL my ♥️ loves you! 🫶🏽#teambaked
Whole grains contain all three parts of the kernel. Refining normally removes the bran and the germ, leaving only the endosperm. Without the bran and germ, about 25% of a grain’s protein is lost, and are greatly reduced in at least seventeen key nutrients.
🪴My Edible Garden + first Vlog!
Will our family ever get too 100% growing our own food NO, but adding the backyard to our food sources has been such a joyful move for me.
Protect Your Peace- Part ✌🏾 We Don’t Notice Stress Until it’s Taken Too Much #Loudwellness
I chose to take both physical and internal/mental space. I will add digital space as well! That’s ok! Choose your boundaries and where you need space.
No More Discounts 🚫 #TrustYourself
Discounts are areas we “overlook” or shortchange” our basic needs in order to allow us to focus on others. Discounts provide us with a tangible “scapegoat” that avoids attention to self. Using “Sure” “Ok” or ” “I guess so” when you really want to say NO!
Bye 👋🏾 Collards; Hello Callaloo 🥬
Leafy greens are brimming with nutrients such as folate, calcium, potassium, magnesium and fiber. Yet, only about 10% of U.S. adults meet the recommended daily amount. I used to be in that 10%, until I dived into understanding how my heritage and health align with these powerful leaves!
What the Mountains 🏔️ Taught me about Self-Trust #environmentalwellness
Spending time in nature can act as a balm for our busy brains. wellness is having good health by occupying pleasant, stimulating environments that support well-being. It promotes interaction with nature and also creating an enjoyable personal environment both in and out of your workspace.
A Dream with a Plan: My First Book Signing 📚🖊️
WE SOLD OUT OF BOOKS! The level of readiness to change our health was palpable in the room.
I Read 46 Books in 2024; Here’s my Top 10⭐️📚 #intellectualwellness
Grief is a gripping and strange emotion. I have no doubt it was her that whispered to me this morning “keep writing”. She loved the blog. ♥️😢🖤 . Through this time books have been a great comfort to me. So here it goes…..
Why I Chose to Self-Publish 📚 #self-trust
So, if you like Whispers blog, the Book 7 Whispers from My Heart to Yours will be a great companion to you. I selected the best blog posts, tweaked them, and added additional “micro-exercises” for real life application
What is a Heritage Diet? 5 ways to adopt
I decided to study the African Heritage diet, become certified, and walk in the diet Myself for 30 days. I can’t ask people of my Community to navigate a life change I am not willing to do Myself.
Whispers Wellness Series #6- Be Curious 📚
I truly believe people arrive in your life for a reason, a season, or a purpose. This defines my friendship with Joyce. We first met when I was a parent patron, frustrated with the lack of diverse activity offerings at my local library for children in our neighborhood. She was…
Is my Neighborhood a Food Swamp? 5 Ways to Navigate it.
The picture on the front is an actual food stand in a neighborhood abroad. I was so taken aback by the amount of fresh fruit and vegetable options in one location. This image became the inspiration for this post; not only do food swamps exist, but we must empower ourselves…
Wellness is a Lifestyle not a Destination: Whispers Origins
Seventeen months into my personal wellness journey, a lightbulb hit just this week. Each week I write posts centered on one element of the 7 dimensions of health model, but I’ve never wrote a post explaining each one. So, I pushed aside the original post for this week, and re-ceneterd…
3 Books I Recommend to Mentees
Mentors provide a sort of professional safety. Equal parts listening ear, stern wisdom, and encouraging dreams often unspoken in other places. This describes a recent visit with my Mentor, and Friends Thom and Lovey. As I espoused my troubles, and whispered my new ideas their reassuring voices demonstrate how you…
Are you Plant-Bound or Re-potting? 🪴
“Our bodies will express physically what we emotionally repress” Frances Edmonds Nearly 3-years ago I packed up 3 humans, 16 years of life-ing, and a puppy. We moved from Chicago to Ohio not only repotting our lives but most importantly desiring the warmth of other suns (Isabelle Wilkerson nod ;).…
Mindful Nutrition While Traveling Series 1 …🛫🌎
So I challenged Myself to stay on track with nutritious eating while traveling. Between work and personal travel this year I find Myself needing more discipline than ever to keep progress in check. After many, many months of tinkering with methods, I’ve found two “must do’s” that have become the…
Mindful Conference Selection: Let’s Talk about it
According to CVENT 14.72 Billion dollars will be spent on B2B events🤯. Conference season is in full swing!!! I’m seeing lots of connections, smiles, and nuggets of wisdom shared across the platform. I’ve been asked a few times “are you attending xxx conference this year?” Or “are you presenting at…
7 types of Rest for Restoration
So believe it or not this is me resting…. A stack of books in a quiet nook of my favorite bookstore. The tactile feel of actual pages, highlighting meaningful passages and stilling my mind for a few moments of pondering as an ideal beautifully written by the author raptures my…
Am I My Sisters Keeper? #womenshistorymonthreflections
As I traverse the state of Ohio, no matter the race, culture, region or background I often hear the same line “these days I’m just trying to get by“. Our dialogue flows indifferent to the cause; maternal health, heart disease, poor nutrition or mental health. Often I hear these similarities…
5 🌟 Meal Prep Containers
This week I had the privilege of co-teaching a meal planning class in the community. It was so much fun engaging around nutrition in very practical ways. One gentleman stated “I’m a bus driver, this container will help me set it up at night and take it with me for…
Food Value Series: Convenience
Prior to this journey convenience was the driving force in my food decisions. Convenience is the state of being able to proceed with something with little effort or difficulty. The definition example could not have been more applicable :0 “the museum has a cafeteria for your convenience”. It was not…
Occupational Sitting & 5 Hacks to Move More 👟
Many of the studies measured full-day sitting time, covering not only hours whiled away in front of the television, but also time spent in a chair at work. Together, those hours consumed a majority of a person’s life. “The average adult spends 50 to 70 percent of their time sitting,”…
3 Uses for a Work Bullet Journal (Series Part 3)📓
I’ve been asked many times how do I keep the pace? I am a Mom, Aunt, Wife, Daughter, Sister, Friend, Health Exec, Health Coach, Blogger, ect… that still finds time to read, move my body, eat mindfully and take a weekend nap. I have no secret time machine, I Bullet…
Health At Every Size Movement (HAES): Let’s Talk About It
As someone from the BIPOC community, I can personally attest education level and income do not shield you from being dismissed or disregarded in health care settings. To know a medical provider is making a concerted effort to avoid judgement and discrimination would absolutely make me seek them out as a professional. I can relate whole-heartedly to this line and experience.
I’m cheering for you! – Hype Woman Vibes 📢
The Queen of R&B Mary J Blidge is my Hype Woman. I’ve never met her, but her songs have gotten me through a number of challenges. I can remember driving down the highway headed toward an important Audit; confidence growing as Ms. Mary belts out the words below in her…
Do You Have a Stress Management Plan?
“The consequences of chronic stress are serious. Yet, many Americans who experience prolonged stress are not making the necessary lifestyle changes to reduce stress and ultimately prevent health problems.” (APA)
Rejection is Redirection ⬇️⬆️➡️
I challenge you to fill in the template and share with a trusted friend, partner, or even if comfortable with your work Leader. Letting them know this year, your focus is not just professional improvement, but a focus on my whole self. If for no other reason, bringing my whole self to work is the goal!
The Work Bag… lets talk about it
If you’re not practicing self-care at work, are you practicing self-neglect?
#30daysnackchallenge 😉 🍎🥑🍋🥒🥕
As I began to plan holiday gifts this year I really wanted to find a theme that would support wellness in the lives of my family and friends. Some may know I’m from a VERY large family and gift giving is a Herculean effort 😂. I’m not going to reveal…
The Road to Belonging
Connecting into the local social infrastructure exponentially improved my sense of belonging
Wellness Self-Love Series: Ode to Espresso ☕️
Too often, we rush through our days without pausing for the small pleasures of life “hiding” in plain sight.
5 Work Planner Recommendations for 2024!
“More women miss out on success, not for lack of talent but because we struggle with unequal life demands, proper support and personal organization.” -VJ Founder of NOTIQ- I hope this is helpful. If there’s a brand you love that I missed, drop it in the comments so we can…
Certified Health Coach: Aligning my Professional and Personal Journeys
The Cornell Nutrition model has changed the health trajectory of my entire family; starting with me.
Is the human spirit most neglected?
Before we jump into this topic, let’s align definitions of spiritual wellness; as it’s often misinterpreted. In my original post, we define spiritual wellness as possessing a set of guiding beliefs, principles, or values that help gives direction to one’s life. Whether you live your beliefs and convictions at home,…
Decision Fatigue
Do you often wonder why at certain parts of the day you can become less decisive, even avoid decisions?This status has a name, decision fatigue. Decision Fatigue is a state of mental overload that can impede a person’s ability to continue making decisions and cause a feeling of depletion. How…
Finding Social Wellness in Zumba? Research says…..
Social Wellness is the ability to successfully interact in a global community and live up to the demands of personal commitments. Health-Related Quality of Life is defined as a multidimensional concept mainly based on a person’s subjective judgment of physical, functional, emotional, and social well-being. It is considered an important…
Emotional Wellness: 10 min meeting breaks
In times of heavy meeting days, I find myself saying “phew”, by 3pm. Without the right tools, planning and intention your schedule can drive you, instead of the reverse. When I came across this article (particularly this image) I was intrigued by the researcher findings and healthy ways to move…
Slow living = Slower Pressure?
Physical wellness is often defined as encompassing a variety of healthy behaviors including adequate exercise, and proper nutrition. Chronic conditions such as Hypertension (high blood pressure) can be impacted significantly by small but consistent changes. In this week’s blog, we’re exploring an emerging concept “Slow Living”. Harvard Medical School Journal…
2022 Books Read and Rankings
Intellectual Wellness: 2022 Books Read and Rankings 2022 was the most diverse reading years for me. Reading 26 books was definitely a stretch until the Fall when crunchy leaves, a long train ride (over 40 hours) and warm coffee propelled my reading habits. This year’s goal is 52 books, thankfully…
👀 Dupe: Breakfast from $7.49 to $2.56- Let’s Save some Dough! 🤑
I discovered this delectable breakfast during the pandemic and it became a routine staple in my house! However, the acceleration in prices, and my preference to grocery shop elsewhere made me pause these purchases.
⛱️ Radiant Summer Era 📣 — Let’s go June! 🙋🏾♀️
Not just a summer focused on looking good, but feeling good. A season of protecting my peace, nourishing my body, moving with intention, laughing more, traveling lighter, and choosing experiences that make me feel alive.
This summer is about wellness, joy, boundaries, confidence, softness, financially disciplined, and becoming even more rooted in who God created me to be.
🙋🏾♀️ 💒 3rd Spaces? Why they Matter to My Health + Whispers Trail Mix Recipe!
A third space (or “third place”) is a social environment outside of home and work/school where people gather, connect, build relationships, and experience community.
I’m right back to sharing my recipes, testing ingredients, and bugging my Mom and best friend with “what I cooked for dinner tonight” hahaha!
♥️ When A WOMAN Chooses Herself#🕊️spiritualwellness
Before you start reading this post, go get a cup of warm team. A cozy blanket and give yourself 5 min of softness….
It often shows up as constantly pouring into others while neglecting yourself, operating in survival mode, struggling to feel valued, or making decisions from exhaustion rather than wholeness. Many women are running on empty emotionally while trying to pour into everyone else. We are planning for children, spouses, careers, churches, communities, but not always planning for ourselves.
👩🏾🍳 WERK’IN and BAKIN with Whole Wheat Flour
Last winter I hosted a cookie swap at my church! It was so much fun tasting everyone’s cookies.
I made cookies with whole wheat flour and coconut sugar! It’s my favorite way to bake cookies. Although my cookie won nothing (there were some super delicious other ones brought) 😂, it held its own against the white sugar/flour competition 💪🏾.
🇬🇧 I Ate A London French Fry 🍟… I’ll Never Be The Same 🤯
Fast food companies spend disproportionately on ads targeting Black and Hispanic audiences.
It was convenient to pick up dinner on the way home from work
It was convenient to eat whatever lunch was ordered at the meeting
It was convenient to eat at airports
It was convenient to choose what was available to the highway exit
🌱 10 Ways to Choose YOU! + Tool May’s Rooted Kitchen Calendar
🥽 I’ve Been in the Kitchen Lab Friends! In April I decided to choose me. Letting my creativity flow. I chose April to hop back on with discipline. Discipline is really about choosing yourself. It’s deciding how you will show up for you: Making choices that align with your goals…
🫒 How To Choose Olive Oil
Friends, I know…. talking about cooking oil is like wading out among alligators. Folks are SERIOUS about the type of oil they use. I get it……
🍎 $1.25 Breakfast- Gentle, Rooted, and Delicious!
Fiber in the morning helps stabilize your blood sugar, so you avoid energy crashes and stay full longer. It also supports healthy digestion and gut function, helping your body feel more balanced and steady as you start your day.
🕊️ Manifesting My Vision 🩵 Women’s Conference 2026 – Lead with Conviction
Starve your distractions, feed your focus! A room, of powerful, beautiful women lifting each other up, pouring into one another, and talking about their spirit and health colliding.